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You need to have an honest conversation, says Annalisa Barbieri, because if you feel pressured into doing something sexual, is it still consensual? My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We enjoy a very active sex life. However, some of the things he is sexually attracted to are just abhorrent to me. He enjoys being dominated and treated as if he were a woman, with clothes and makeupand wants me to act as if I w ere a man, including changing my vocal pitch and calling him derogatory names.
If you feel pressured into doing something sexual, is it still consensual? I contacted sex and relationship psychotherapist Silva Neves cosrt. For your boyfriend it was different; when he was introduced to your kink, he was neutral towards it, tried it and was able to incorporate it into his sex life. Because of that, he expects you to be able to do the same; but not all kinks are equal.
You say that this is a no-go for you, but in other ways you are very happy, so what to do? Over time this will erode the relationship. Instead, Neves suggested talking to him with love, kindness and empathy. But you have to think about the boundaries of your relationship. Neither of you is right or wrong, but you have very different needs and they must both be recognised and respected.
If you can manage this, it bodes well for future stumbling blocks in your relationship. Every week Annalisa Barbieri addresses a family-related problem sent in by a reader.
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